1. Health
Send to a Friend via Email
You can opt-out at any time. Please refer to our privacy policy for contact information.

Discuss in my forum

Can I get an STD from having sex with a virgin?


Updated May 22, 2014

Written or reviewed by a board-certified physician. See About.com's Medical Review Board.

Man and woman lying in bed, focus on feet
Ryan McVay/The Image Bank/Getty Images
Question: Can I get an STD from having sex with a virgin?
Answer: Yes, you can get an STD from having sex with a virgin. Even if it is a virgin's first time having vaginal intercourse, it doesn't mean that they have never been exposed to an STD. Many individuals consider themselves to be virgins even if they've had oral sex and anal sex — both of which are risk factors for acquiring an STD. This is, in fact, one of the main problems with virginity pledges, and it's why they are not a particularly useful tool in a sex educator's arsenal.

Even if a person has never had any sexual contact, it is possible that they may have been exposed to an STD. Many individuals acquire oral herpes through casual affection with their family members. Other people are exposed to their mothers' STDs during pregnancy or birth. It is also possible to become infected with diseases, such as HIV, through nonsexual risk behaviors, such as injection drug use.

Although relative sexual inexperience does make it less likely that a person will have an STD, don't assume that just because someone says they're a virgin that you are not taking a risk. It's still important to practice safe sex, if for no other reason than it's a good life-saving habit. Furthermore, what about putting your partner at risk? Contrary to some popular myths, people can get pregnant the first time they have sex, and sleeping with a virgin won't cure your HIV or other STDs.

When it comes to sex, it's better to be safe than sorry.

©2014 About.com. All rights reserved.

We comply with the HONcode standard
for trustworthy health
information: verify here.